El Pasado de Give: When Letting Go Feels Like a Runway Walk

17 Jul 2024
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Emil

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Is it the faint scent of sandalwood and bergamot lingering in the air? Or maybe it's the way the light catches the dust motes, turning them into miniature constellations of regret? Whatever it is, there's something about this time of year that always has me feeling nostalgic, reflective, and just a tad bit extra. It's like the universe decided to hold up a giant, vintage-inspired magnifying glass to my life and whisper, "Remember this?"

Of course, nostalgia, like that one friend who brings a slightly questionable casserole to every potluck, can be a mixed bag. Sometimes it's a warm hug on a chilly day, reminding you of simpler times filled with platform flip-flops and the sweet, sweet melody of a dial-up modem. Other times, it's that unwelcome guest who overstays their welcome, dredging up memories better left forgotten, like that regrettable pixie cut or the unfortunate phase where you thought wearing a scarf as a belt was a good idea (we've all been there, right?).

But here's the thing about the past, about "el pasado de give" as I like to dramatically call it: it's got this weird, almost magical power over us. It can hold us hostage with its "what ifs" and "shoulda-coulda-wouldas," trapping us in a never-ending loop of second-guessing and regret. Or, and this is the truly exciting part, we can choose to see it as a wildly patterned, slightly tattered, but ultimately beautiful tapestry woven from all the threads of our experiences, the good, the bad, and the downright cringeworthy.

Because let's be real, life isn't all perfectly filtered Instagram posts and witty tweets. It's messy. It's unpredictable. And sometimes, it throws you curveballs that would make even Beyoncé question her rhythm. But it's in those moments, the ones where you feel like you're stumbling down the runway of life in six-inch heels you swore you could walk in, that the real magic happens. It's in those moments that you have the opportunity to pick yourself up, dust yourself off (preferably with a dramatic hair flip), and say, "Okay, universe, you got me this time, but watch out because I'm coming back stronger and fiercer than ever."

So, how do we do it? How do we navigate the treacherous yet undeniably fabulous terrain of "el pasado de give" without getting lost in a sea of could-have-beens? It's a question that's plagued philosophers, poets, and, let's be honest, anyone who's ever spent an embarrassing amount of time scrolling through their ex's Instagram. But the answer, my friends, might be simpler than you think.

It's about embracing the beautiful messiness of it all. The triumphs, the failures, the heartbreaks, the bad hair days - they've all led you to this very moment. And while the past might not be something you can control, it is something you can choose to learn from, grow from, and even laugh about (because seriously, that scarf-as-a-belt phase was something else). So go ahead, raise a glass (preferably filled with something bubbly) to "el pasado de give" – it’s made you who you are, and let’s be real, you're pretty damn fabulous.